Asian Pick Up Artist Succeeds at Dating More and More

  Why is that that it in recent times, the growing trend of Asian men who are successful with dating beautiful women is the Asian Pickup Up Artist? It is the Asian PUA who is starting to be much more confident with women in comparison to his "normal", untrained Asian brothers who constantly complain about the media and female prejudice.

The Asian PUA faces the same obstacles and faces the equal amount of prejudice regardless of whether it's as a result of race, the colour of the skin, height and muscle preferences as the non-pickup artist. So it's lazy thinking to chalk up their failure to racism, coming from foreign backgrounds and cultures, and all that bull.

To put it plainly, it's not "Asians men" who are failing. Far from it, the Asian Pick Up Artist is becoming evolving to become more sophisticated while remaining emotionally masculine. It is the socially inexperienced males (Asian boys burdened with chauvinism and conservativeness) who are winding up dateless. The less sophisticated Asian males, not skilled at the seduction arts, are the ones failing to approach women, get a girl's telephone number, and seduce her. These Asian non-PUAs are the type of men that would be rejected no matter their race, height and looks.

That's not to say that the colour of one's skin has completely nothing to contribute for the dilemma. Rather, folks are always going to observe what race we are unconsciously. The difficulty lies in the mind when women and men make an issue of race, and for that most aspect, the issue begins with not blaming the desirable girls who are rejecting you, but really, with you for not stepping up both your masculinity and your game (ie confidence).

The largest obstacle in interracial dating is that many Asian guys who are not dating rockstars will not pursuer the woman of their dreams. Why does this come about? Maybe they lack self-esteem, or possibly they are afraid of humiliation. This is what you call a self limiting belief.

In any case, your beliefs result in you being trapped in feeling fearful, timid or anxious at the thought of approaching gorgeous white women (or Latina or black or what ever) then you've doomed yourself to failure already. To paraphrase Sun Tzu, you've lost the war before you have even fought the first battle.

Now let's not be facetious about the coloration of one's skin. There is always going to be some girls around who will plainly admit that Asian guys usually are not their racial preference. Some are even Asian ladies!

Who do we blame? Do we castigate the media or the racist aspects of our society? Or is it the conditioning that society has pressured us into creating barriers in our own minds? Racism and self-racism can come from anywhere. It really is time to step beyond those limitations that society imposes upon us for it's own benefit. It's time for you to do what what it takes to be successful regardless of what anyone says or tries to do to keep you "in your place." The point is the fact that it does not matter.

From now on, you are not gonna dismiss your navigate here  for attractive females, no matter their race or how incredibly beautiful they are. You are not oblivious to racial distinctions. Instead, you'll concentrate on breaking down these boundaries and doing what needs to be done.

The simple explanation why the Asian Pickup Up Artist scores versus the Asian non-PUA who fails is because the Asian PUA has realized how to master his thoughts, his feelings, and push away the societal conditioning in his mind along with all the worries he feels when he talks an attractive girl. As quickly as you find out what it's you would like, it is time to pursue your target and be successful regardless of the road blocks that society might put with your way.

For every time we Asian men deal with our nervousness, we achieve courage, self confidence, and power within the doing.

JT "the Asian Playboy" Tran is a top relationship expert and Asian Dating Coach having been featured on major network television interviews like ABC and other national media. He can be reached for live coaching or media interviews at 1-888-689-4263.

Download his 60 minute advanced audio training guide "Exposing the Myth Behind Why Asian Guys Can't Date White Girls", a free copy of "Enter the PUA" ebook and 4 week ecourse all for FREE by signing up to his newsletter at http://www.abcsofattraction.com

Credentials:

Tran has trained Fortune 500 professionals, corporate executives, political activists and actors alike on how to improve their confidence over one weekend. He is also the CEO of the ABCs of Attraction, a world renown indie pickup artist company. Finally, Tran has been voted the World's Greatest Asian Pick Up Artist on two separate continents (North America and Australia) as well as 2009's Top 10 Pick Up Artists in the World.